Here you'll find a collection of educational media articles I've collaborated with. I love seeing quality sex ed out there in the mainstream media, so each holds a special place in my heart.
Off the back of my recent collaboration with Adore Beauty and Sunroom, I chatted with Adore's Beauty IQ team about all things pleasure. This includes what gets in our way, Communication 101, self-pleasure and the intergenerational gaps I see in session. A brilliant and in-depth conversation.
A great interview with Fashion Journal about how to navigate sexual health conversations in the casual dating game, what safer practice looks like and why we all need to destigmatise STIs.
I caught up with Fashion Journal about what a sex rut can mean, why we need to normalise them and gave starting points for how to find your way out of them.
Struggling to orgasm is a lot more common than we might think. I spoke with Fashion Journal in this piece about why we might struggle, the lasting impacts of sexual trauma and how the practice of mindfulness can be a game-changer.
I spoke with Fashion Journal about the common reasons why we may feel anxious during sex and broke down steps on how we can practice being more assertive. Such an important conversation.
Our phones are one of the biggest barriers to intimacy in modern relationships. I spoke with Vogue Australia about how it impacts our relationships and what we can do.
I had the pleasure of meeting fellow sexologist, Emily Duncan and we got together to chat about all the common myths and misconceptions we have to debunk our work from the importance of erections and the gender gap around desire.
As a relationship therapist, I have a love/hate relationship with love languages. In this chat, I speak with Fashion Journal about what it can mean and how to approach conversations about being on different pages with it.
I had the pleasure of connecting with new friends, Taylor and Emma from the Full Bloom podcast. We spoke about my journey as a a queer therapist and how my personal experiences influence my practice. We also touched on my hope for the sex therapy world and my university project on non-monogamy. Such a rich conversation between friends.
A very special piece with Refinery 29 about how ADHD can impact relationships and the communication ground rules you need to set.
I love break-ups. They're such raw and beautiful experiences of being human. So when Mama Mia reached out for my top break-up rules, you know I couldn't resist.
I spoke with Refinery 29 about safer nude-taking practice and how to have the dreaded conversation with your ex about deleting your nudes.
I gave a quick recommendation to Fashion Journal about how to introduce nipple play post-piercings.
I discussed with Fashion Journal what defines an age-gap relationship, the common barriers and how to get through it. Shout out to Leo Di Caprio.
I gave Fashion Journal my favourite cock ring recommendations from the beginners to the multi-functional. We love to see it.
I had the honour of chatting with Destyn from the Rethinking Manhood podcast about how the patriarchy affects men and sex. We talk about the porn industry and I share my experiences working with male clients trying to redefine modern masculinity.
A very special piece about exploring sex and pleasure post-sexual trauma that I had the pleasure of contributing to with Fashion Journal.
A quickie with Yahoo! about why many women and vulva-owners have never had an orgasm before, the many barriers that can stand in the way and what we can do to change the stats.
I spoke with Lizzy from Club BodyTalk about one of my favourite research topics: porn. We covered the stats, the good, the bad and the lack of quality representation. We could talk for hours.
For Pride Month, I chatted with 9Honey to unpack the pervasive myths around queerness and the struggles of the queer community. I absolutely loved this chat and we're only just scratching the surface.
I had a wonderful chat with Fashion Journal about what makes audio erotica so exciting compared to traditional visual porn. I also gave my hot tips on how to incorporate sensory play into your sexual repertoire.
"We all fight and break up and we're all human beings who all want to be loved and understood at the end of the day."
Selina Nguyen in Sexologist debunks common myths and misconceptions around LGBTQIA+ relationships.
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